When did we decide that because a woman is somewhat cute and everything, she's hard work? Competition is huge, plenty of very decent girls want to find Mr. Right and move out of the country, and the site is a way to go. Ew, giving in? Since when does saying ‘yes’ undermine female dignity?

Initiating online dates is cool, but only if TWO show interest. You’re risking missing some awesome experience with a guy fearing your rejection more often than feeling your favor. So regular communication does matter, as it gives reassurance to him and some gentle direction for you.

An “easy girl” has a range of connotations. Most guys would call it sleeping around, but it's not. However, it’s your gross underperformance if he feels too tasked with initiating a date. This task should equally be shared if you’re serious about a relationship.